Why Social Interaction Is Important

Are you making a supreme effort to create and maintain good lasting relationships, friendships, and connections? If you're not, get out of your room and start experimenting in doing it. More important than being successful at doing it - is the actual effort made by doing it, and you will feel the difference.  

Why is this so important to do? Because we are a social species, and there is a need to associate with one-another, no matter who you are. Without the camaraderie of being with others... you will suffer.

Cultivating relationships with family, friends, business associates, and either platonic or intimate others... is a healthy way to live and experience enjoyment, because connecting socially is a basic feature of human experience. 

And, when you are deprived of it... the pain of rejection often can be as intense as the pain of physical injury - but it passes, and you can then try again. Not every athlete always wins his game; but he keeps at it, and does not quit. You can do the same.

How many men over 50 seek the company of youthful women? Keep in mind though that not all younger women are young at heart. Many carry loads of negative and unhappy baggage. Being young at heart, no matter the age, is the the objective to seek. Physical beauty is skin deep and does not always last. Inner beauty is for eternity. Finding that, is hitting the home run.

If you're stuck in your doldrums because of a self-inflicted poor appearance... fix it. Shed some weight, clean up, make yourself appealing. Others have done it. Then, if you still want the young cuties - go and compete with your younger competitors for them. You'd be surprised how little competition there actually is... when you play your cards right.

Give it a shot... become an extraordinary player at living life.

 

~ Steve - Over 50... A Single Man's Point Of View ~